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Mar 28, 2023·edited Mar 28, 2023Liked by Valerie Monroe

Wow, this is timely (even though you wrote it two years ago..!) Or perhaps this is simply timeless in the topic (or the reality) of how others perceive us. Most recently a former friend from nearly 40 years ago reached out to me after reading a profile of me in my alma mater's alumni magazine which included a photo from last year. He said how much I looked as I did in college and "what was your secret?" I actually didn't consider that as a compliment because, damn it, I'm older AND I've grown up (hopefully) from that naive 22 year old to a now 60 year WO-MAN. So, when we talked, I said to him that I had no secrets except for sunblock and no longer putting up with bullsh*t. The best secrets ever, right?

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Vagina. Thanks, I feel better now.

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