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You’ll find many places offering wrap-ups of this year’s events, where you can rejoice and weep over the triumphs and the disasters, natural and otherwise. But I thought it might be fun—or perhaps a relief—to reflect on five beauty trends (noted in the trade newsletter Skin Inc.) that garnered a massive number of TikTok hits in 2023.
But first, a few notable pieces of news.
Chimpanzees, they’re just like us! Some chimps go through menopause and continue to enjoy monkeyshines for many years afterward, according to a paper published in Science. Why is this interesting? Because “…among mammals, substantial numbers of post-reproductive females living under natural conditions in the wild have only been observed in humans and a few whale species…” meaning other mammals tend to die off after they can no longer reproduce. Researchers asking the question so many seem to have of post-menopausal women: Why are you still here? I mean, do we need a reason?
In Japan, Tomiko Itooka is celebrating her extended post-menopausal life; at 115 years old, she just became the oldest person in the country. If her memory remains sharp, she can thank her diet: The Japan Times reports that a study has found wasabi may be beneficial in enhancing elderly people’s memory and cognitive abilities. Spice me up!
Speaking of menopause—for those of you headed there, in it, or mercifully through it—I recommend this terrific podcast (avoid the earworm-y jingle and go straight to the talk). Also, this excellent Substack about your below-deck area in general.
Finally, a few beauty-related curiosities, presented from most popular to least, that captured the attention of millions of the potentially confused.
Skin Cycling
Essentially, this is a marketing term used to describe the reasonable suggestion that if you apply an exfoliating treatment one evening before bed, you should then consider taking a couple of nights off to prevent your skin from becoming irritated.
The Bowl Method
A hair treatment meant to moisturize and reduce frizz involving the application of curl cream and then crouching over a bowl of water while you immerse your head upside down, repeatedly squeezing water out of your hair and re-dunking. Looks as unpleasant (and messy) as it sounds.
Forehead Reduction
Skin Inc. reports that this involves “surgical methods” to make the forehead look smaller by lowering the appearance of the hairline using “microfeathering” (a microblading technique). Bangs! Whatever happened to bangs?!
Unapproachable Makeup
Smudged and smoky cat-eyes; boldly defined lips; intense colors applied in such a way as to reveal confidence and dominance. And presumably to convey a “f*ck off” demeanor. Followed by…
Angry Girl Makeup
Pretty much the same as above, except with more emphasis on creating a look that suggests the exorcist has left the building and it’s time to fend for yourself. I kind of love the idea of using makeup to express your feelings rather than only as a way to enhance attractiveness—as long as it’s fun.
Speaking of fun, here’s a sneak peek of what you can expect from HNTFUYF in 2024: a bevy of reader questions about makeup; more about under-eye issues (you’ve still got questions and I’ve still got answers); why smart people keep falling for outrageous skincare promises; what realistic advances in skincare treatment might be in our future; and—alert!—fewer free HNTFUYF beauty Q&As, because even post-menopausal women need to earn a living.
Wishing us all peace in the new year. xo
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Val, you are incredible. Even a wrap-up like this makes me laugh out loud. Thank you for a great way to approach the new year, concluding with: even post-menopausal women need to earn a living. You said it, girl! Happy new year in anticipo! (I keep thinking about lowering my hairline--to what end? I pride myself on being a highbrow.)
The title alone deserves this heart!! ❤️😃