Faking It

plus, is your face likeable?

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Sometimes I come across research that bears good news. (Good news! How about a little of that right now?) According to a large-scale study by Nottingham Trent University, facially expressive people are more likeable and socially successful than, well, the stone-faced.

It’s not rocket science to understand that allowing emotions to travel across your face might more easily spark and facilitate connection. Researchers told Newsweek they think this preference might be related to facially expressive people being more predictable. If you can read someone’s face, you have a better idea of what they’re thinking (and feeling)—and consequently what they might do or say next. (How I wish we had more of that right now, too.)

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Because Valentine’s Day is coming this week, a reader question about cosmetics might be appropriate. So a HNTFUYF-er curious about fake lashes takes the spotlight:

Q: When my daughter was married last fall, the makeup artist used false eyelashes on me. Not the caterpillar type that are so popular these days; she beefed up my natural lashes with individual lashes interspersed amid my own. I was surprised how much I liked how it looked. It made my eyes pop without appearing artificial. Even my daughters were impressed!

It's something I’d like to play with on my own for special occasions. No idea the degree of difficulty. Is this something I could manage myself? Are there any brands/methods/tutorials you would recommend to make this easier? Thanks so much for any help you can provide!

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